Rabbi Doniel Staum, LMSW
Rabbi, Kehillat New Hempstead
Rebbe/Guidance Counselor – ASHAR
Principal – Ohr Naftoli- New Windsor
STAM
TORAH
ROSH
HASHANA 5775
“TO
BE A BEE OR NOT TO BE A BEE”
“Dip
the apple in the honey
Make
a b’racha (blessing) loud and clear
Shana
Tova Umesuka
Have
a happy, sweet new year”
An elderly carpenter was eagerly preparing
for retirement. When he informed his employer/contractor of his plans, the
employer asked him if he could do him a personal favor and build one more house
before he left. After so many years of working together the carpenter felt he could
not refuse, and so he begrudgingly agreed. It quickly became apparent that the
carpenter’s heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and he
used inferior quality materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated
career.
When the carpenter
finished the house he informed his employer that the job was done. The employer
smiled and handed the key to the front door to the carpenter.
"This is your house," the
employer said, "It is my personal gift to you, with gratitude for your
dedication and work for so many years."
The carpenter was crestfallen! If he had
only known he was building his own house, he would have built it so
differently. Now he would be living in a subpar home with no one to blame but
himself.
We are the carpenters constructing our own
lives. "Life is a do-it-yourself project.” The attitudes and choices we
make throughout our lives are the nails, boards, and walls that compose the
"house" we live in tomorrow. We would be wise to build carefully and
adroitly!
One of the most beloved customs of Rosh
Hashana is the eating of symbolic foods on the eve of the holiday, and reciting
prayers which incorporate a play on words with the Hebrew name of the food, to
ask G-d for various blessings during the coming year. But unquestionably the
most famous and celebrated of all is dipping the challa and an apple into honey
and petitioning G-d for a sweet new year. In fact, along with the shofar, honey
has become a symbol of Rosh Hashana.
Perhaps there is a deeper connection and
meaning in the custom to ‘dip in honey’ on Rosh Hashana than the mere fact that
honey is sweet. The very manner in which bee-honey[1]
is produced serves as a powerful lesson for our main objective and focus on
Rosh Hashana.
Honeybees use nectar from flowers to make honey. Nectar
is almost 80% water with some complex sugars. In North
America , bees get nectar from flowers like clovers, dandelions,
berry bushes, and fruit tree blossoms. [Different colors and flavors of honey
are primarily based on what kind of flowers the bees use to produce their
honey.]
The bees use their long, tube like tongues as straws to
suck the nectar out of the flowers. Then they store it in their "honey
stomachs". [Bees actually have two stomachs, their honey stomach which
they use like a nectar backpack and their regular stomach.] When the honey
stomach is full it weighs almost as much as the bee does. Honeybees must visit
between 100 and 1500 flowers in order to fill their honey stomachs.
The honeybees return to the hive and pass the nectar onto
other worker bees. These bees suck the nectar from the honeybee's stomach
through their mouths. These "house bees" "chew" the nectar
for about half an hour. During this time, enzymes are breaking the complex
sugars in the nectar into simple sugars so that it is both more digestible for
the bees and less likely to be attacked by bacteria while it is stored within
the hive.
The bees then spread the nectar throughout the honeycombs
where water evaporates from it, making it a thicker syrup. The bees help the
nectar dry faster by fanning it with their wings. Once the honey is gooey
enough, the bees seal off the cell of the honeycomb with a plug of wax. The
honey is stored until it is eaten. In one year, a colony of bees eats between
120 and 200 pounds of honey.
Honey is created through a transformation that occurs
within the bee. The bee gathers the raw materials and then works intensely to
abet the process and ensure that it is completed. The process of teshuva
– repentance, which begins on Rosh Hashana, is not simply about going through
the motions. Rather, it is a deeply internal and personal process. It is
primarily a transformation that occurs within a person’s heart and mind, and includes
a commitment to growth and improvement.
Prima facie, it seems enigmatic that the two days of Rosh
Hashana serve as the first two days of the Ten days of Repentance. The prayers
of the day are primarily focused on accepting and declaring the majesty and grandeur
of the G-d’s eternal monarchy. In fact, there is nary a mention of sin,
repentance, or regret in all of the prayers of the day.[2]
It is obvious that the service of Rosh Hashana is not
only integral to the process of repentance but it is also the vital starting
point. How does the theme of recognizing and focusing on G-d’s Kingship relate
to the repentance and forgiveness we so desperately seek?
In order for a person to properly repent he
must have an understanding of the severity of sin and the spiritually
deleterious effect that it has upon his soul. He must also understand that G-d
truly loves him, cares about his actions, and is waiting for him to draw close
to Him. Without that realization, the process of repentance is futile. One
cannot repent and return to something which is vague and emotionless. It is for
this reason that the Ten days of Repentance must begin with Rosh Hashana.
The theme of Rosh Hashana, which traverses
all its prayers and customs, is the realization of the greatness of G-d as the
supreme omnipotent force of the world. At the same time we also relate the
special closeness and boundless love that G-d maintains for His elite Nation.
We mention that G-d’s kingship was only consummated when Klal Yisroel
unyieldingly accepted the yoke of His monarchy upon ourselves, which is in
effect saying that we are the progenitors of G-d’s Monarchy, as it were.[3]
When a person has an appreciation of the
greatness of G-d and of the meticulous precision of the judgment, and at the
same time understands that G-d loves him deeply, then he can foster a
desire to reconnect himself with that Supreme Being through repentance. Thus, Yom
Kippur has no meaning unless it is preceded by Rosh Hashana.
Unlike Yom Kippur which is full of external
symbols, laws, and customs regarding repentance, on Rosh Hashana our ‘repentance’
is completely internal. The deep introspection of Rosh Hashana even surpasses that
of Yom Kippur, for it is the service of Rosh Hashana that sets the trajectory
of repentance in motion which culminates with Yom Kippur. The more one appreciates
the message of Rosh Hashana the more he will be able to take advantage of the
awesome opportunity granted on Yom Kippur.
Another message to be gleaned from the
creation of honey is the bee’s persistence and incredible work ethic to produce
every drop of honey. To gather a pound
of honey, a bee flies a distance equal to more than three times around the
world. Also, it takes two million flowers to make one pound of honey. Those
numbers seem inconceivable to us but for the bee it is merely part of its job.
It was created to perform those tasks and it has the innate capacity to do so.
The Torah states regarding repentance[4] “For the matter is very near to
you, in your mouth and in your heart, to do it.” Sometimes we feel that we have
sinned so much and have drifted so far that we can never repent. The Torah tells
us otherwise. The ability to repent was built into our essence and therefore no
matter how far one has strayed he can always repent. It will unquestionably
require a tremendous amount of commitment, but it is within our purview to do
it.
The sad truth is that, “Most people live the life that
happens instead of the life they truly want.”[5] Many of us have dreams and
aspirations but we often never overcome the initial hurdles and impediments.
Time drags on and we sigh as we watch our dreams fall by the wayside.
When we dip our challah/apple into honey we should
remember how much commitment, exertion and dedication it entailed for the bee
to produce that honey. It was created from an inner transformation that
transpired inside a diminutive insect fulfilling its nature.
We are constantly building our own lives! Rosh Hashana
affords us the opportunity to take a moment to look back at the blueprints and
decide if our building is developing as planned. At the same time, we dip our
challa/apple into honey and remind ourselves that the building is only as good
as its blueprints. Those blueprints are composed with forethought and insight
that stem from deep within one’s psyche.
“Most people live the life that happens instead of the
life they want”
“For the matter is very near to you”
[1] It must
be noted that one may certainly use honey from dates or other types of honey.
The thoughts recorded here relate to bee-honey as that is the most prevalent
and widely used honey generally and on Rosh Hashana.
[2] The one
exception is the opening stanza in the “Avinu Malkeinu- Our Father, Our King”
prayer which states, “Our Father, Our King, we have sinned before you.” Indeed,
there are halachic opinions which state that one should omit this sentence on
Rosh Hashana. The consensus is that it is read on Rosh Hashana as a passing
statement, “Our Father our King we have sinned before you, but our Father our
King, we have no king other than You.”
[3] Surely
an Infallible G-d does not need us. However, “There is no king without
subjects” and so, although G-d did not change one iota when He created the
world and man, it is only when we accepted His kingship that He could be called
King.
[4] Devorim 30:14; See Ramban there
[5] Quoted
by Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky
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