Rabbi Doniel Staum, LMSW
Rabbi, Kehillat New Hempstead
Rebbe/Guidance Counselor – ASHAR
Principal – Ohr Naftoli- New Windsor
STAM
TORAH
PARSHAS
NOACH 5776
“WHEN IT’S ALL OVER”
A young Rabbi, who was a student of
the Telsher Rosh Yeshiva Rabbi Mordechai Gifter zt’l, once approached Rabbi
Gifter and said that he had been invited to be the guest lecturer in an
out-of-town community. He wanted to know if his Rebbe had any suggestions about
an appropriate message that he should relate to that particular community.
Rabbi Gifter replied by relating the
following personal vignette:
Rabbi Gifter was born and raised in America , but decided to travel to Europe so that
he could study in the prominent Telshe Yeshiva in Lithuania . It was an arduous
journey and it meant giving up many of the physical comforts of America . Still,
he was willing to undertake the challenges so that he would have the
opportunity to study in the shadow of the illustrious Torah luminaries of
Telshe.
Rabbi Gifter’s parents struggled to raise
the money necessary to procure a boat ticket. They were only able to afford a
third-class ticket. He was assigned a room at the bottom of the ship, adjacent
to a massive banquet hall.
A few days after they were out at sea there
was a festive masquerade party in the banquet hall. Rabbi Gifter heard the
sounds of raucous laughter and carrying on.
He peered into the hall and was astounded by the sight that greeted him.
He had never before seen adults carrying on and jumping around in costumes like
callow children.
Suddenly, the ship slammed into an iceberg
and the all of the electricity on the boat immediately went out. This took
place not too many years after the sinking of the Titanic, and the catastrophic
event was still relatively fresh on everyone’s mind. As soon as the power went
out, everyone pulled off their masks and put down their glasses of wine. Sounds
of fervent prayer and crying filled the hall.
Three minutes later the power returned and
the lights came back to life. A collective cheer erupted as the masks were re-donned,
the glasses lifted, and the festivities resumed as if nothing had transpired.
Rabbi Gifter concluded his story and turned
to his student, “Tell the congregation that when the lights come back on, don’t
immediately resume the party!”
Although they were physically protected
from the raging flood, those inside the Ark of Noach endured a harrowing
experience. The sounds of desolation and intense rains were drowned out by the
myriad sounds of every animal and species in the world, whose existence depended
on Noach and his family.
When the waters had finally sufficiently
subsided those who emerged from the Ark
had the daunting task of rebuilding the destroyed world. The pasuk states[1]
“The sons of Noach who came out of the Ark
were Shem, Cham, and Yafes.”
Rabbi Zalman Sorotzkin zt’l[2]
notes that when the Torah refers to the sons of Noach during the flood and
immediately afterwards, they are merely referred to as “the sons of Noach”[3],
without listing their names.
He notes that one would have thought that
life in the Ark ,
as well as living through the peril and destruction of the flood, would have
influenced Noach’s sons to become perfectly righteous people. But sadly, that
was not the case. Cham remained steeped in coarse materialism and ultimately
received a curse from his father, while Yafes remained bound to the aesthetics
and externalities of life. It was only Shem who retained the righteous path and
committed himself to the tents of Torah and Divine Service.
Truthfully, while they were in the Ark they indeed reached
levels of righteousness. Therefore, during the flood they were classified
simply as, “the sons of Noach”. Noach was described as “a righteous man,
perfect in his generation”, and - at that point - all three of his sons
subjugated themselves to his path of life. But once the flood concluded, and
life returned to some semblance of normalcy, they returned to their own
divergent paths and ideas. At that point, the oldest son Yafes, was no longer
listed first. Shem, the only son to maintain the level of piety, is listed
first, symbolizing his superior spiritual rank.
It is noteworthy that Noach himself was not
spared from the malady of ‘faded inspiration’. The Medrash[4]
notes that Noach was originally titled, “A righteous man”, but later was
reduced to “A man of the earth”[5].
The Torah says that after he emerged from the Ark , “Noach, the man of the earth, debased
himself and planted a vineyard.” The great Noach, who was responsible for the
survival and perpetuation of all of humanity, defiled himself by busying
himself with making wine. One of the many lessons of Noach is that it’s one
thing to be righteous when the world is depending on you, but it’s far more
difficult to retain the same level of greatness when life has resumed its
mundane course.
The month of Cheshvan is titled MarCheshvan.
There are numerous reasons given for the added prefix. One of the well-known
reasons is that after enjoying a month of unique holidays, each replete with
its endemic mitzvos, the void of holidays in Cheshvan is glaring and painful.
In that sense, the word “Mar” is to be translated as bitter.
However, the Chiddushei Harim offers a
novel insight into the name “MarCheshvan”. He explains that the word
MarCheshvan is based on the Aramaic/Talmudic expression, “Mirachasin
b’sifasay – His lips are still moving.”[6]
Despite the fact that Tishrei’s Days of Awe and Joy are behind us, our lips are
still moving with the prayers, tunes, lessons, and spiritual elevations that we
enjoyed and merited throughout that time.
Rabbi Shalom Schwadron zt’l noted that the
Evil Inclination laughs and remarks, as it were, “I’ll give you the month of
Elul and I’ll even give you the month of Tishrei. But as soon as Cheshvan and
Kislev arrive, you’re mine!” In other words, our Evil Inclination allows us to
feel the inspiration and spiritual bliss of the holidays, knowing that he will
not be able to deter any good Jew from the hype of those elevated days. But he
patiently waits, lurking in the shadows, for the holidays to end. Then as the
succos are returned to their sheds and the esrogim begin to turn brown he sets
out to work, dousing our flames of passion and inspiration. He plants seeds of
dubious skepticism into our resolutions for the new year, and convinces us to
throw in the towel, so that we can ‘come back to reality’. His nefarious
message is that the lights have come back on and it’s time for the ‘party’ to
resume.
One of the lessons of parshas Noach[7]
is that one must carry the inspiration of the flood beyond. If one ensures that
his lips continue to repeat the lessons and prayers of Tishrei, his MarCheshvan
will not be the “bitter” and empty Cheshvan, devoid of holidays, but rather the
“Moving lips” Cheshvan, where he continues to ride the waves of Tishrei across
the oceanic abyss of winter.
“The sons of Noach”
“His lips are still moving”
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